#OOTD / #OOTN pageant princess edition

Buenos días chicos y chicas!

How do you do? The weekend is soon approaching- wassup? What are your plans for the coming weekend? By God’s grace, I shall be in London, celebrating Haitian Flag day with my fellow Haitians in the UK.

But that’s not what I’m here to discuss today. I’m here to show y’all my dress à la Jennifer Aniston/ Angelina Jolie/ Jennifer Lopez (if you can remember the one leg Angelina Jolie meme, you’re an OG).

SO…. last Saturday, I was invited to the Mr and Miss Congo UK beauty pageant along with my fellow pageant princesses and queens.

I went for a simple burgundy dress from I Saw It First and as you can see… it’s pretty much bomb! You can already see the leg just peeking out of the dress- which by the way costed me less that a tenner.

With the first runner up (= prince) of Mr Congo UK- first edition and the winner (= king) of MMWIUK

Because I already had these golden barely there sandals from Primark, I decided to do for gold accents and accessories. I must say that I am quit please with it all.

The dress is really huggy and fits my body so perfectly that i could not stop feeling myself.

The Mr and Miss West Indies ladies – bar the queen- showed up and shut it down.

It was a great event as I met some fantastic people. Very enjoyable to see the Congolese culture and flavour in full display. I’m so grateful for this.


Thank you for reading and if you’ve enjoyed this post, don’t forget to follow my blog for new ones every Monday and Thursday!

Until next time, be blessed and remain empowered, always👸🏾👑.

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“ Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”- Proverbs 31:30


#IssaPageantLife: MMWIUK

#IssaPageantLife: MMWIUK

Hello there!! How are you guys doing?

Thank you for coming (back?) to read my posts. It is well appreciated.

What are we talking about today? Well, let’s talk about risk, stepping out of my comfort zone and pageantry! An awful lot some would think but really in this case, they are all linked.

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#StudyingSociety: “Would you date a woman with an Afro? “

#StudyingSociety: “Would you date a woman with an Afro? “

Seriously, social media is full of people asking stupid questions!! It makes me sad…

The other day, as I was scrolling through my Instagram’s explorer page, I saw this picture with 3 photos of the (same) (gorgeous) woman with her hair in a MASSIVE Afro. It came with the question: “would you date a woman with an Afro?”… yeah, SAME!
I want to rephrase the question for them: would you date a woman with her 4c hair in its natural state?

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If I were… || My Chinese portrait

If I were… || My Chinese portrait

A Chinese Portrait is an abstract artistic depiction of a person. You complete several sentences of the form “If I were a(n) X, I would be…” to provide insight into the way you feel.

If I were a color, I would be RED. It is such a vibrant colour! As clothes or accessories, it can make you stand out from the crowd…. so me!

If I were a fruit I would be MANGO or STRAWBERRY. The first one is very sweet and reminds of back home and the second on is red and yummy.

If I were a season, I would be SUMMER. The sun, the heat, ice creams … do i need to add anything?

If I were a country, I would be HAITI. I wish people would give a chance to this country and see all its beauty and what it has to offer…

If I were a natural phenomenon, I would be SUNRISE. Have  you seen one lately?

If I were a month, I would be OCTOBER. It’s my birth month.

If I were a job, I would be TEACHING… what I am doing right now. Because I believe education and knowledge are powerful tools in the hands of the wise.

If I were a transport, I would be a PLANE because it is a cool way of travelling. Being in the cloud is awesome.

If I were one of the seven wonder of the world, I would be THE COLOSSEUM as it is the only one I have seen my own eyes. Too easy I know.

If I were one of the 5 elements, I would be FIRE because there is so much energy released   during a fire.

If I were an historical year, I would be 1804- the year of the Haitian revolution.

If I were one of the 5 senses, I would be TOUCH.




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#StudyingSociety: So… depression is not a white man’s disease?

I am asking in the same way many people think that sickle cell anaemia is a black people disease. That doesn’t make me ignorant… does it?

Hear where I am coming from… please!

In my 25 years of age, the vast majority of people suffering from depression that I have heard off or known are melanin deficient people. It is my observation. Do you have to agree? The answer is “no”. You may have had a different experience.

Picture source: here

Twitter, blogs, YouTube and the internet in general have made me aware of all our black and other coloured people- young and old, suffering from depression and above all, willing to talk about it and asking for help.


Out of all these melaninated people, again the vast majority seems to be located in “western” countries or countries from the north hemisphere. Is depression then a “white man’s land disease”? Well…. let’s have a look at this map found online


Shocking! Or not! People from the red/amber/peach countries would have all the reasons to be depressed. Then, why is there this feeling that it is a disease for the white man?

Maybe it is that we don’t call it the same. Maybe we do suffer from it but when you are constantly in survival mode, you can’t let yourself feel down because of what people said about you or because of what people have.

As a black woman, I was raised and therefore grew up  with that mentality that things happen- whether you believe in God or any higher power or not-  and we must be go getter! In Haiti, things barely come to you served on a silver platter.

I know for a fact that some people think that black people that are feeling depressed here in England are “soft”. They have left that British mentality and way of doing things get to their head… whatever that means.


Now, I am no expert in depression and mental health issues and will never claim to be. Nor do I suffer from it. I just want to educate myself and understand what people go through. I see the brain as this amazing part of the human that brings forth so many questions.

Are you a PoC suffering from depression? Do you talk about it with people around you? How are you getting helped?

I want to encourage you and I pray that you are seeking and are able to find help. I declare full recovery over your life.

Be and remain empowered always 👑✊🏿👸🏾

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LoveBlog#22|| I love a new hairstyle/ cut… (another one!)💈💈

I live for the #theCutLife! Some of the cuts are just sick!!

Got my hair done yesterday and again, my barber gave me liiiiiiiife!

And on top of that, I have purple hair. How cool is that huh?!

Are you obsessed with any # on Instagram?!

Let a sista know so I can have a look👀👀

As always, remain empowered ✊🏿✊🏿